MAGIC - Creating Moments & Memories Pt. 3

Back to "The MAGIC Behind the Perfect Wedding Reception!" which, in simple terms, are a few easy and inexpensive measures a Bride & Groom can do themselves to create a memorable celebration.

You've set the "tone" for your reception with your hand-picked background music genre, room lighting level and decor; each coinciding with the atmosphere you wish to project. You've chosen just the right song(s) for the wedding party introductions for emphasis and you've asked your bridesmaids and groomsmen to make the most of the moment as they are presented to your guests. You're ready to continue the MAGIC, adding to the excitement of your celebration with fun, memorable, personalized introductions of your attendants.

It's safe to say that each member of the wedding party holds some significance in your life. You obviously think of them as your closest friends if you invited them to stand by your side on one of the most important days of your lives. Maybe they're a sorority sister, fraternity brother, former teammate, longtime coworker, relative, friend since childhood, confidant, mentor, etc. Odds are, though, that most of your guests will only recognize members of the wedding party because they're all in the same "uniform."

Now, you could have them introduced by name only, but how much fun would that be? Or you could take advantage of this opportunity to engage your guests by having your master of ceremonies incorporate little tidbits of information about each of your attendants as they are being introduced.

Imagine you are introducing one set of your friends to another set of friends. You have a special relationship with each. What would you share to break the ice? How do you know each other? When did you meet? Where did you meet? How did you meet? What do you enjoy doing together? What do they do? Are they finishing a degree, serving in the Armed Forces or living and working in another state? What hobbies, sports or interest do you share in common? Are they famous for accomplishing or inventing something? What fun facts or amusing story from your friendship can you tell? Do they have a nickname? You need not include everything but these questions will get you started in the right direction.

You'll not only be imparting the magnitude of your friendship and how much you care for these individuals but, delivered properly, these personalized introductions will captivate and entertain your guests, add a personal touch and further energize the room, preparing your family and friends for one of the most exciting moments of your celebration...the introduction of the Bride and Groom.

If you have questions, I'd be happy to help. Please feel free to post your questions in the comment section below.

Ron Ruth is the author of 2, popular wedding workshops,
“The MAGIC Behind the Perfect Wedding Reception!”
and “The Best Groom…Ever!"
To book Ron for your wedding or to speak to your group,
please call 816-224-4487 or email ron@ronruthweddings.com.
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