MAGIC - Creating Moments & Memories Pt. 2

OK! You've set the stage for the "mood" you wish to convey for the beginning of your wedding reception with the proper ambient music, room lighting and decor. Your guests are being subtlety, almost subliminally, coaxed into a frame of mind that blends with the atmosphere you wish to project.

You and your new spouse have arrived at the venue with the wedding party, anxiously ready to be introduced to your friends and family. Now is the time when some of the most obvious, personal touches come into play, allowing you to create some extremely memorable moments.

How do you want your guests to respond as your attendants are introduced? Are you ready to transition from elegant and romantic into fun? Do you want to take the upbeat level of the fun you've already created to the next level? These are important questions when considering the music choice(s) for the wedding party introductions. Keep in mind, however, that your selections will help move your guests where you want them to go emotionally.

Note: For a complimentary list of wedding party introduction music, send me an email at ron@ronruthweddings.com. Please place "Wedding Party Introduction Music" in the subject line and I'll send you a few suggestions.

And then there are your attendants. How do you want them to perform during their introduction? Your reception is a time of great happiness and those that you have chosen to be active participants in your special day help set the tone for what lies ahead for all of your guests. Even the most stylish introduction still allows your wedding party to include a smile, a wave, a dip or a spin

upon entering the room. For more upbeat introductions, I've seen couples leapfrog their way to the dance floor, or grab a guest or 2 from a table to dance and celebrate along with them. I've experienced bridesmaids and groomsmen that perform their own impromptu choreography as they made their way to their places...all to the enjoyment of everyone in the room.

Recently, for the first time in my 20 year career, I had a Groom offer $50 to the bridesmaid and groomsman that made the most original, high energy entrance. It was a bit of an awkward situation for me as he also decided I should be the judge and determine the winner. I'm not suggesting that a "prize money" is needed or necessary. But, "WOW!" The end result of that competition was incredibly entertaining and so much fun to watch.

The one major element that has been left out of this entire scenario, thus far, are the photos that will be taken of these special moments, creating a catalog of memories for you to enjoy for years to come.

For next time: Personalizing the wedding party introductions...recognizing those that have honored you..

Photo Credits: Top right - http://www.sandersandross.com/
Middle Center - http://www.tjstudios.com/
2 Bottom Center - http://www.flashesphotography.com/

Ron Ruth is the author of 2, popular wedding workshops,
“The MAGIC Behind the Perfect Wedding Reception!”
and “The Best Groom…Ever!"
To book Ron for your wedding reception
or to speak to your group or association,
please call 816-224-4487 or email ron@ronruthweddings.com.
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