With this post, we'll start to focus on creating Moments and Memories. It has been my experience that the most memorable moments (that lead to the most memorable wedding receptions) are those that are created through the addition of personal touches that will produce an emotional connection between the newlyweds and their guests.
One of my favorite post-event comments came from a bride that said "I knew it was an extraordinary evening when I looked around the room and saw my guests laughing one minute, crying another and then laughing again." But how did that happen and what's the value to you?
Think about the last DVD you rented. When you popped it in the player you some expectations that it would entertain you. And, without really thinking about, you knew within the first few minutes if the movie would live up to your expectations or not. If it didn't, you most likely turned it off and returned it. What helped you make the final decision was whether the storyline made an immediate, emotional connection with you. Did the storyline go directly to a scene that made you laugh or cry? Did it draw you into the plot with suspense or horror? Or, did it just bore you?
A wedding reception is much the same. Just like a movie, the need to make an emotional connection begins during the opening credits. Or, in the case of a reception, as the guests arrive. Does the arrival music set the tone for a "storyline" that reflects your personality and style and project the appropriate ambiance that you desire (i.e.: romantic, elegant, high-energy, fun, etc)?
What about the lighting in the room? Low level lighting expresses intimacy whereas higher level lighting encourages more socializing.
And then there is the decor. Rich, deep colors communicate romance. Pastels are lively and fun.
These are just a few considerations that set an emotionally charged stage that will further draw your guests into one of the most incredibly memorable moments of your event...your introduction as husband and wife.
Next time we get together, get ready to meet the Wedding Party!
Ron Ruth is the author of 2, popular wedding workshops,
“The MAGIC Behind the Perfect Wedding Reception!”
and “The Best Groom…Ever!"
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